Bring a notebook to the first meeting. Initial consultations move quickly, and it is easy to walk out remembering only half of what was said. Sitting down with a New Jersey birth injury lawyer for the first time is partly about telling your story and partly about deciding whether this person is the right fit for your family. These questions help with the second part. Beyond the notebook, a short written timeline and any records you already have are worth bringing, though a lack of paperwork should not stop you from asking for a meeting.

1. How much of your practice involves birth injury or medical malpractice?

These cases depend on specialized medical evidence. Ask how often the attorney handles claims involving labor and delivery, and whether the firm has taken similar matters through litigation rather than only early negotiation.

2. Who will actually work on my case?

At some firms the person you meet first is not the one handling the daily work. Knowing who your main contact will be avoids surprises later. Ask too whether paralegals or nurse consultants will be involved, since they often handle records and scheduling.

3. How will my child’s records be reviewed?

Ask whether outside medical experts will look at the chart, and in which specialties. A thoughtful answer usually touches on two things: whether the care met accepted practice, and whether it caused the injury.

4. What timing rules could apply?

Filing deadlines exist and often work differently when the injured person is a minor. Ask the attorney to explain which rules might apply to your facts, and whether any special notice requirements could be involved.

5. How are fees and costs handled?

Many firms take these cases on contingency, but the details matter. Ask for the fee agreement in writing, and ask specifically who pays for expert reviews and other case expenses, and at what point.

6. What happens if the review does not support a claim?

Some reviews end with a conclusion that the injury could not have been prevented. Find out how that would be communicated to you and whether you would owe anything.

7. How will we stay in touch?

Ask how often you can expect updates, whether by phone, email or an online portal, and how quickly messages are usually returned.

8. What will you need from me?

Expect to be asked for records, a timeline, provider names and possibly photos or videos. Knowing this early lets you start gathering material.

9. How long do cases like this usually take?

No honest attorney can promise a timeline, but most can describe the general stages and what tends to slow things down. Cases involving several providers and extensive expert work generally take longer than simpler ones.

10. Is there anything I should avoid doing for now?

Questions about social media posts, conversations with the hospital or insurers, and keeping documents intact are all reasonable to raise. Some attorneys suggest holding off on public posts about the birth until a review is complete.

Pay attention to how each question is answered, not just to the content of the answer. Clear explanations, realistic expectations and a willingness to say “we don’t know yet” are generally better signs than confident predictions about outcomes.